Encouraging our children to be proactive

As I lay in bed awake and unable to sleep, suddenly a thought dawn on me why my siblings and me don't help out household chores. My mom always complain about how we failed to help her to do housework and honestly I myself also wondered why even in my twenties I did not help out in the household. Why?? Why did we not have the initiative to do help out in the household? This seems like the most natural thing we should have done but didn't. This question although not voiced out, had been in the back of my mind for a really long time.

Recently Tara hasn't been responding well~ and one day our fan blade dropped. As I was discussing w my friends, it could be the possibility of feeling pressured according to fengshui terms. Not just me but Tara as well. Because my hubby did overtime pretty much the whole week, I was feeling pressured to get Tara to learn and respond well, unknowingly I think I flared up at her when she didn't respond. I think this put pressure on her and she kinda stopped responding all together. After realising this, I began to be more gentle to her. A friend who is very good in teaching children told me before that we cannot be forceful when teaching, the child will associate teaching with unhappiness. That will deter her from learning.

Then suddenly, I realised the reason why my siblings and I did not take initiative to help out household chores when we were young. It's because we never had the encouragement to do so. When we tried to mimic sweeping the floor etc, we were always scolded and discouraged from doing so as we were being a "hindrance". Even when we were older and the odd times when we wanted to help out in the house, my mom would always do it in her own timing without telling us and then complain we never help after that.

This is my feeling - especially when a child is young, cues are taken from the parents 100% and even more in the subconscious mind. As the brain is not fully developed, logic (and I think discernment) is not fully formed, most of the events go into our subconscious**, as this is the primary mode where the mind is operating.

By not helping out in the household from young has quite a few repercussions, we fail to have the initiative to do things for our family, which means we also failed to show our love to them. And being in the same household without helping, its like there is an invisible barrier between the family members. Actions help break the barrier in energy form.

"Every time a child try to do something and is discouraged, he or she is learning not to, not only for the moment, but for the lifetime. As unconscious as many of us as parents are, these are "drop by drop" teaching we are giving to our children, as minute as it may seems."

May we all give our children of the next generation healthy values and loving attitudes. :)


**Subconscious mind (or subtle conscious mind) is our auto-pilot operating system. All of us, even as adults, pretty much steer our whole life values and principles (thus our situations, such as rich, poor, how treat ourselves and other people and etc) are mostly due to our subconscious mind, as much as we think we are operating from our logic and thinking system. We are actually not. Haha.

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Watching Raymon Grace Prosperity dvd

Been watching this video since a couple of weeks ago.. along with Young Living Forgiveness, Release and Abundance essential oils. My inner work stash. Haha.

I'm suppose to see this video every 2-3 days for at least several months until I really gain abundance. Noting down the date when I start and let's see what's the end result!

Actually I can already feel it manifesting. I'm a lot more interested in growing YL biz than before. And taking in small but big leaps and suddenly there are a few downlines that want to grow my biz with me. It feels great to be supported. And I love the fact that I can do inner work with Young Living (which is my work).

Love, love and


LOVE.


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Inner Child Essential Oil

Omg.. I'm at the Young Living office today, and had the sudden urge to try Inner Child just before I leave. I dropped and rubbed the oil gently between my palm and cupped over my nose and mouth and breathe deeply..

I ended up standing there for a few minutes without moving at all! I must have looked really weird being deep in my state in the middle of a busy office..

Surprised, I went back to see the description of this oil. ** See the picture attached**

Maybe I really need to connect with my authentic self~

I'm taking this oil home with me today! *Really can't resist it!!!*







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Helichrysum helps to prevent my toenail from falling out from a bad knock

*Sharing of Young Living essential oils*

*Helichrysum eo*


What happens when you hit your toe and your nail start to ooz blood out, and it starts turning blue black?

The next scenario that comes to mind usually will be, "Oh no! My nail is going to fall off in the next few days!" That's what always happen to me last time when I hit my toes hard and my toe nail came off almost all with blood and in great pain!

But what happened last week really changed my mind about what could possibly happen. The nail doesn't always have to end up *falling out*!

Last Thursday I hit my last toe on my baby high chair's leg.. the hit was quite hard and my last toe's nail almost came off and there was blood oozing out. It was really painful!

As I was really busy I only dabbed it dry with a dry tissue and about few hours later then I had the time to put some helichrysum on it. I dropped 1 drop of helichrysum eo on the area where the nail had came off. Then I wrapped with a new handiplast. I was hoping my toe can heal well, perhaps with the toenail falling out eventually anyways. But it could save me lots of pain as helichrysum is good with pain.

Every night from Thursday to Sunday I would change to a new plaster and drop a drop of helichrysum eo on it (actually I only applied 3 times as one particular night I forgot to do it.) And I was extra careful as my baby loves to trample on my toes!

And today my baby trampled on my toes full force!

But.. it's not painful at all! Surprised, I pulled open the plaster to see, to my amazement, it was fully healed! I tried to pull the toenail apart gently to see if it's still detached to my flesh, but it's firmly stuck in place, just like the injury has never taken place!

Attached is a photo of the "after" of my toenail today.. wasted I did not take a "before" pic!

Can you tell from my pic that my toenail was almost falling out just a few days ago???

Note: sorry it's not a pretty toe, but at least my toenail is not falling out!

Helichrysum eo amazed me once again!

**Young Living are 100% organic essential oils**

**I'm not a doctor nor is this article intended to treat, cure or diagnose any illness or sickness. It's just that the benefits of helichrysum eo is too good to keep to myself! I want to share with my friends! **




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Helichrysum testimony

*Essential oils sharing with before and after pictures*

Helichrysum eo works wonders for me.

A couple of years ago while walking through a pet shop, a pet can food dropped onto my left foot.

It was super painful and I can't even touch it as I feel like crying once touched. I think it hit a nerve so I was almost close to tearing.

As I was near my mil place, I quickly borrowed her helichrysum eo (she bought it for her hearing purposes - and it actually worked!!) to drop onto my wound as I have read countless testimonies about how good it is for bruises and cuts. I didn't even rub it in! Just drop 1-2 drops and "spread" it gently around my bruise. Just 3 hours later it really went down until it's just a regular light bruise when I touch it!! Thank God~

Here are some before and after pictures which I took that day.

On another occasion, my hubby got his hand burnt while holding a halogen bulb right after its off. I asked him to quickly borrow his mom's helichrysum (thanks mil again!) and right after he applied helichrysum eo, he looked at me astounded and said,"it's not painful anymore."

He didn't believe in the oils last time, but after this incident he is a believer of the oils already. Hehe.

*Helichrysum is a natural medicinal plant that’s used to make a beneficial essential oil that boasts many different full-body benefits due to its anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties. Helichrysum essential oil, in the form of helichrysum italicum extract, has been established in various experimental studies to have strong abilities to lower inflammation due to several mechanisms: inflammatory enzyme inhibition, free radical scavenging activity and corticoid-like effects.

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*Young Living essential oils are organic*

I'm sharing this because I feel helichrysum has work wonders for me. And I read so many amazing testimonies online about this oil. I want to share with my friends about this wonderful oil and what it can do! I hope my friends can all benefit from this~

PS. If you want to learn more about helichrysum oil or other essential oils and it's benefits, feel free to PM me. I will be happy to share.




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Passive aggressive

Passive aggressive people don't feel it's safe to speak up or show their emotions. They feel it's not accepted. Thus they show it out in a passive aggressive way where it's harder to confront. There is a certain dependency on the person who is shown to. Be it a subconscious need for validation or real actual dependency.


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Queuing for 三時繫念

While going for the event I took the wrong bus and walked the wrong route. But I keep telling myself that there is a timing for everything and everything happens for a reason.

Finally when I reached I took the lift to the 3rd floor with a family. The family queued behind me and I sat reading my book in the queue for half an hour. Suddenly the auntie offered me biscuits which I am grateful to take as I hadn't had my breakfast yet. We started chatting and she taught me how urs impt for me to go fully for the event itself. How she did for many years as well as liberating lives she saw how her life and as well as her daughters life changed. I changed my mind decided to go for the event fully!

So lucky am I to have angels 守护神 around me to let me take so many wrong routes so I can eventually meet the auntie at the exact same time and learn from her! She also taught me to 随缘, if have yuan we will do, 没有缘不做。不要让自己起烦恼。

Words of wisdom.
很感恩。：）