For 2 nights in a row my baby has been asking us to "拜拜". Whenever we put our hands down after a while she will ask us to put our hands together and "拜拜” again. Previously she always ask us to clap, suddenly now change to "拜拜”. That's quite strange.. so yesterday I ask her,"你看到佛吗?" Several times. And she instanteously once she got the message, she pointed at the ceiling and exclaim loudly,"佛!"
I'm honestly quite bedazzled.. really? "佛” in our bedroom? My mom always say,"头上三尺有神明。" I never really believed it until one day my Buddhist Whatsapp group shared a picture of a guy who was passing away to Pureland and they snap the picture it was taken of Amithaba Buddha, and Guanyin and DaShizhi Pusha and many boddhisatva behind. Like rainbow and translucent! So magnificent!
So it's real!
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Tuesday, June 13, 2017
Tuesday, June 06, 2017
Update of DIY Dish Washing Liquid
My baby pacifier always have this nasty smell, which we tried very hard to get rid of but could not. No matter how we wash with our normal baby dish washing liquid, the smell was still always there, no less at all!
The other day I suddenly thought why not I try with my new DIY dish washing liquid, I just put a dab on it and wash away, and the smell was gone! I mean, not lesser, but totally gone! It's ACTUALLY smelling FRESH! Lemon and peppermint smell (because I put in lemon and peppermint eo in my dishwashing liquid). I can't believe it really. We had this pacifier for a year and half and it had never smelled so nice before except the first time we used it!
I think the baking soda is working great to get rid of odors! Thieves household cleaner to kill all the germs and bacteria that was giving out the nasty smell. I didn't even have to rub it long. I simply put the DIY dishwashing liquid on it and wash away. And the smell was totally, utterly gone! Now smelling fresh of peppermint and lemon smell. Super grateful for this recipe!
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The other day I suddenly thought why not I try with my new DIY dish washing liquid, I just put a dab on it and wash away, and the smell was gone! I mean, not lesser, but totally gone! It's ACTUALLY smelling FRESH! Lemon and peppermint smell (because I put in lemon and peppermint eo in my dishwashing liquid). I can't believe it really. We had this pacifier for a year and half and it had never smelled so nice before except the first time we used it!
I think the baking soda is working great to get rid of odors! Thieves household cleaner to kill all the germs and bacteria that was giving out the nasty smell. I didn't even have to rub it long. I simply put the DIY dishwashing liquid on it and wash away. And the smell was totally, utterly gone! Now smelling fresh of peppermint and lemon smell. Super grateful for this recipe!
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Saturday, June 03, 2017
阿弥陀佛感应
I have always been rather lucky. What I thought of getting will often appear soon as a gift or I will have the means to get it. 非常感恩。
But recently after starting to chant 1000 Amituofo daily, various people whom I have never met and don't know suddenly appear to help out and is gone in a jiffy. Very amazing! It's like suddenly 很多护法神在身旁。
Last Friday 26/05/2019, I went to Guang Ming San for a while and when I was about to go back home, suddenly my slippers broke in the middle. I said to myself, "Oh no! My slipper broke!" It was raining and I was thinking, how to walk home barefoot(both sides broke!) in the rain~ There was no one around except a volunteer who worked in one of the praying areas because the temple is closing soon. She was standing at least 20m away from me. She turned around, and ask half loudly if my slipper broke. I was very surprised she heard me, as 20m was quite far and I did not shout, only short of exclaim to myself. I smiled embarrassingly and said,"yes haha my slipper just broke I think.." And she quickly replied,"You want slippers? I have extra, I always bring an extra pair with me just in case."
Really?! I really feel this is Amituofo energy 护法神 helping and protecting me. And the size is exactly just right! How amazing is that! Both my slippers broke in the rain and yet I did not have to walk a step barefoot! Until now I still cannot believe it.
And today we went to j8 ntuc.. my hubby gave me a new $1 coin, which cannot be used for trolley actually. I tried and realised and told myself that I need to change money.. and out of nowhere a lady just appear instanteously and changed to a old $1 that can fit in for me! Wow. And she disappeared just as fast as she appeared. Until now I'm still amazed. How is that possible?? 真的非常感恩。真的很不可思议！
Update: 2 weeks later when we were doing our weekly grocery shopping at ntuc, I was out of change and the same thing happened again!!! A ntuc staff suddenly appeared (in like 2 seconds) and gave me change and walked off, with a trail of ppl waiting to change with her for the trolleys! How amazing is that!
I give thanks sincerely!!! 谢谢！
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But recently after starting to chant 1000 Amituofo daily, various people whom I have never met and don't know suddenly appear to help out and is gone in a jiffy. Very amazing! It's like suddenly 很多护法神在身旁。
Last Friday 26/05/2019, I went to Guang Ming San for a while and when I was about to go back home, suddenly my slippers broke in the middle. I said to myself, "Oh no! My slipper broke!" It was raining and I was thinking, how to walk home barefoot(both sides broke!) in the rain~ There was no one around except a volunteer who worked in one of the praying areas because the temple is closing soon. She was standing at least 20m away from me. She turned around, and ask half loudly if my slipper broke. I was very surprised she heard me, as 20m was quite far and I did not shout, only short of exclaim to myself. I smiled embarrassingly and said,"yes haha my slipper just broke I think.." And she quickly replied,"You want slippers? I have extra, I always bring an extra pair with me just in case."
Really?! I really feel this is Amituofo energy 护法神 helping and protecting me. And the size is exactly just right! How amazing is that! Both my slippers broke in the rain and yet I did not have to walk a step barefoot! Until now I still cannot believe it.
And today we went to j8 ntuc.. my hubby gave me a new $1 coin, which cannot be used for trolley actually. I tried and realised and told myself that I need to change money.. and out of nowhere a lady just appear instanteously and changed to a old $1 that can fit in for me! Wow. And she disappeared just as fast as she appeared. Until now I'm still amazed. How is that possible?? 真的非常感恩。真的很不可思议！
Update: 2 weeks later when we were doing our weekly grocery shopping at ntuc, I was out of change and the same thing happened again!!! A ntuc staff suddenly appeared (in like 2 seconds) and gave me change and walked off, with a trail of ppl waiting to change with her for the trolleys! How amazing is that!
I give thanks sincerely!!! 谢谢！
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Wednesday, May 24, 2017
Kale chips!
I just did a batch of kale chips in my airfryer! But why does it taste so bitter? :(
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Monday, May 22, 2017
DIY fabric softener
Am going to try this. :)
Will update once I tried it.
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener
Ingredients:
2 cups water
1 cup distilled vinegar — like this
1/2 cup non-toxic conditioner (I prefer to use this conditioner or the Lavender Mint from Young Living)
Essential Oils of your choice — I add in essential oils if I use a non-scented conditioner. If I use the Lavender Mint from Young Living, it already adds an amazing scent!
Directions:
Combine all ingredients into a large glass jar
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener | Real Food RN
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener | Real Food RN
Put on a plastic lid (plastic is important because the vinegar will rust a metal lid)
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener | Real Food RN
Shake
Use as you would your regular fabric softener, during the rinse cycle
Smile and know that you are not coating yourself and your family in toxic chemicals just to have soft clothes 🙂
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Will update once I tried it.
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener
Ingredients:
2 cups water
1 cup distilled vinegar — like this
1/2 cup non-toxic conditioner (I prefer to use this conditioner or the Lavender Mint from Young Living)
Essential Oils of your choice — I add in essential oils if I use a non-scented conditioner. If I use the Lavender Mint from Young Living, it already adds an amazing scent!
Directions:
Combine all ingredients into a large glass jar
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener | Real Food RN
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener | Real Food RN
Put on a plastic lid (plastic is important because the vinegar will rust a metal lid)
Non-Toxic DIY Fabric Softener | Real Food RN
Shake
Use as you would your regular fabric softener, during the rinse cycle
Smile and know that you are not coating yourself and your family in toxic chemicals just to have soft clothes 🙂
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Wednesday, May 17, 2017
My Mission
As I was chanting amituofo to meet Waileng, I was thinking about the case where ZL posted the Father cut off the arm of the 17 yo teenager who raped his 17 month old Daughter. I tot he deserved it really. Will all fathers do the same? If yes then these perverts will go to orphanages. Suddenly I have a gulp in my throats that I can't stomach down. I tried to choke back the tears in my throats when I thought about the poor children in orphanages. I wish I can protect all children in the world. Then suddenly I realised why I am a Mother now and doing the most important job in the world. And kind souls come to help me with expanding my baby mind.
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Thursday, May 11, 2017
Realisation of how importance is birth to 3 year old
I just realised today how important a mother is to a baby. Not just it's material needs but also to the brain development and how she will grow to the rest of her life. I have known for quite some time that our subconscious from birth (actually from pregnancy) onwards forms of subconscious. And whatever habits it's formed. It will carry throughout adulthood. Today I just learnt that indeed that is the case! Really.
Because I brought my baby to the playground to play with this lovely mother of an adopted daughter and another child that she is babysitting, age about the same as my girl. Today, she told me that her husband noticed that my girl has lack of communication. She explained that communication can help with the learning curve of the child. Actually I have noticed this too, and have told my hubby and my mom about it. She and her husband latertold me in more details, that I have to keep repeating myself , and try and let her communicate with me. Communication, as in 2 way. Let her express herself and what she is want and constantly teach her the same things over and over again so she can learn to pick up and express the same thing I am teaching her. I noticed the baby girl that she is helping to take care can say many things. And express herself well. She said that Tara is still very much in her own world now and doesn't communicate that much with people. Which in a way I can see the difference between the girl and Tara.
Then I commented several times that my hubby is also the same. He is constantly in his own world. He doesn't know how to communicate and doesn't reply much.
Suddenly, I got an insight!!
When he was young of all the 3 sons, he was taken care by my mil the most. My mil was not one to communicate. She had some hearing problem and old traditional type of thinking. Those that will leave baby to rest on bed all the time while she watch tv. I sprained my hand when my baby was 2 months old, and she leave baby on bed all the time. Until she had flat head for a period of time. And I went back to work for 3 month, when my baby was 6 months old to 9 months old, my baby was in her care most of the time. What she did was to put baby in playpen. From morning to night. She played in there, when poo or need to change diaper, my mil will change or bathe her, and simply put her back there again. 3 months later, from a cheerful baby, she became non-smiling baby, and doesn't not respond to us anymore when we played with her. She totally lost her playful self. I was shocked. And I told my husband. He was also very surprised. Our baby was a super cheerful baby that already know how to play hide and seek since 3-4 months old. Suddenly she stopped responding and stop playing with us. I was shocked and worried at the same time. That was when she was around 8 months old. I happened to quit my job when she was 9 months old (means it's been 3 months in my mil care) and it took me close to 2 months of constantly playing with her to get her back to her old happy and playful self again. This period of time has always been the back of my mind. I wonder why. Because my Mother din play with her? Or what? After today spontaneous teaching by my Friend at the playground, I suddenly realised. This is due to the lack of communication my baby needs for 3 crucial months of her babyhood!! For 3 straight months, she was taught no need to communicate. Since my mil kept watching drama series and just let her play on her own, and babies forget really fast, she learnt that it's not necessary to communicate and since she is playing by herself ALL THE TIME, this becomes HER WORLD. That's is why she is constantly in her own world. Because no one is playing her! It has formed part of her subconscious behaviour!!!
That is why you need to keep repeating to her to teach things and it will form the deep part of her subconscious mind and bring all the way to her adulthood, and possibly to her death, unless one practices awareness meditation. Then there is possibility of turning things around by wisdom. Coz by being aware, and Chinese call 定(stable awareness)，will 慧 (wisdom) arise. Now then I realised how important I am to her. I will form her character, her brain development, her methods of attaining something or letting go of something. No wonder Chinese have this saying: 小孩三岁定八十。this is really true.
Look at my hubby!! He is 40 now and STILL in his own world!! He was cared for by his mother the most and his mom was busy with coffeeshop that she hardly had time for him. And his mom wasn't the kind to play with babies. The old traditional type of thinking that babies don't need our attention. Throw them at one side can already. That is why until now he is HUGELY lacking in communication skills. He can't even answer properly without saying "huh". Everyday I have to repeat myself all day long just to talk to him. All because when he was young there is no one to teach him "what is communication"!
I'm shocked to find out how impactful our babyhood is!!! Unless my hubby practise awareness, he will never understand the extent of this! It's even gonna be useless if I say to him now because he don't understand it at all.
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Because I brought my baby to the playground to play with this lovely mother of an adopted daughter and another child that she is babysitting, age about the same as my girl. Today, she told me that her husband noticed that my girl has lack of communication. She explained that communication can help with the learning curve of the child. Actually I have noticed this too, and have told my hubby and my mom about it. She and her husband latertold me in more details, that I have to keep repeating myself , and try and let her communicate with me. Communication, as in 2 way. Let her express herself and what she is want and constantly teach her the same things over and over again so she can learn to pick up and express the same thing I am teaching her. I noticed the baby girl that she is helping to take care can say many things. And express herself well. She said that Tara is still very much in her own world now and doesn't communicate that much with people. Which in a way I can see the difference between the girl and Tara.
Then I commented several times that my hubby is also the same. He is constantly in his own world. He doesn't know how to communicate and doesn't reply much.
Suddenly, I got an insight!!
When he was young of all the 3 sons, he was taken care by my mil the most. My mil was not one to communicate. She had some hearing problem and old traditional type of thinking. Those that will leave baby to rest on bed all the time while she watch tv. I sprained my hand when my baby was 2 months old, and she leave baby on bed all the time. Until she had flat head for a period of time. And I went back to work for 3 month, when my baby was 6 months old to 9 months old, my baby was in her care most of the time. What she did was to put baby in playpen. From morning to night. She played in there, when poo or need to change diaper, my mil will change or bathe her, and simply put her back there again. 3 months later, from a cheerful baby, she became non-smiling baby, and doesn't not respond to us anymore when we played with her. She totally lost her playful self. I was shocked. And I told my husband. He was also very surprised. Our baby was a super cheerful baby that already know how to play hide and seek since 3-4 months old. Suddenly she stopped responding and stop playing with us. I was shocked and worried at the same time. That was when she was around 8 months old. I happened to quit my job when she was 9 months old (means it's been 3 months in my mil care) and it took me close to 2 months of constantly playing with her to get her back to her old happy and playful self again. This period of time has always been the back of my mind. I wonder why. Because my Mother din play with her? Or what? After today spontaneous teaching by my Friend at the playground, I suddenly realised. This is due to the lack of communication my baby needs for 3 crucial months of her babyhood!! For 3 straight months, she was taught no need to communicate. Since my mil kept watching drama series and just let her play on her own, and babies forget really fast, she learnt that it's not necessary to communicate and since she is playing by herself ALL THE TIME, this becomes HER WORLD. That's is why she is constantly in her own world. Because no one is playing her! It has formed part of her subconscious behaviour!!!
That is why you need to keep repeating to her to teach things and it will form the deep part of her subconscious mind and bring all the way to her adulthood, and possibly to her death, unless one practices awareness meditation. Then there is possibility of turning things around by wisdom. Coz by being aware, and Chinese call 定(stable awareness)，will 慧 (wisdom) arise. Now then I realised how important I am to her. I will form her character, her brain development, her methods of attaining something or letting go of something. No wonder Chinese have this saying: 小孩三岁定八十。this is really true.
Look at my hubby!! He is 40 now and STILL in his own world!! He was cared for by his mother the most and his mom was busy with coffeeshop that she hardly had time for him. And his mom wasn't the kind to play with babies. The old traditional type of thinking that babies don't need our attention. Throw them at one side can already. That is why until now he is HUGELY lacking in communication skills. He can't even answer properly without saying "huh". Everyday I have to repeat myself all day long just to talk to him. All because when he was young there is no one to teach him "what is communication"!
I'm shocked to find out how impactful our babyhood is!!! Unless my hubby practise awareness, he will never understand the extent of this! It's even gonna be useless if I say to him now because he don't understand it at all.
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