Choices

Every second we are making choices. Do we take a bigger step to overtake others or remain in our space, the food we eat, down to the drink that we drink, and people we meet. And it's these little choices we make each day that determines the eventual bigger choices we make in life. So if something big in our lives is going wrong, silent down, observe the everyday small choices we make in our lives. We will be surprised at how the bigger choice was already determined by the small choices way before the big decision was made. The small choices (aka habits) are habitual energy and has a life force of its own. It grows every time you choose it once more. And it's these little choices that makes up our character and personality and eventually decides all the choices, whether big or small, in our lives. 

So if you want to have a life that is guided by good choices instead of whims n habits, start by looking at the small choices. :)

P.S. There are no accidents. Everything is already set in place by our habits way way long before any accidents happens.