Sunday, September 08, 2013

Be in the Now with your partner

No matter what happens, at some point your relationship is going to end. Either you’re going to break up/get divorced, or one of you is going to die.

Morbid? Maybe. But once you accept that your relationship is “doomed” it can really free you up to be in The Now with your partner.

Being in The Now means focusing on what’s going on in your relation- ship RIGHT NOW. Seeing your partner for what they are and what they bring to the table, accepting the bad and loving the good and letting the emotional future take care of itself. 

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